How many times it has happened that to us that we wanted to Say No but we ended up saying yes instead?
Give it a thought to Say No
Many of us want to make others Happy, so we end up saying yes. Also we feel guilty about saying ‘No’. We need to steel up our confidence and be clear about what we actually want to say. If we want say no, we should say it clearly without lowering our eyes.
We must not hesitate to say ‘No’, After all, it’s about our belief. Only we know what is best for us, what we actually should be doing. It is important not to let others ride our thoughts, emotions. But at the same time once we say ‘No’, and we must stick to it. We must not nod and smile or be confused while expressing our view.
Success Ratio in life
Doing something you don’t want to do might get you short term gains, but is it really worth it? Do not feel guilty after saying ‘No’. Sometimes we say ‘Yes’ not wanting to taste failure. But failure is not bad.
It is a learning experience which is often important for achieving success. It is at times important to place ourselves before the needs of others. This is because life doesn’t give opportunities again and again. This is not advocating selfishness, but recognizing and respecting your needs and prioritizing.
But at same time we must know when to actually say ‘ No’ we must not blindly say ‘No’. We must say ‘No’ only to our negative thoughts. It must have happened with all of us at some point in time that we wanted to do something but gave up midway just because somebody told us that we were not good enough.
People do often question our abilities to succeed, and negativity does have tremendous power to stick to our thought and hurt us and at the same time questions our dreams. People might have complimented us but we forget its significance and question our own abilities.
Negative thoughts have the potential to damage us but we must not get carried away and try transforming it into positive energy and move ahead. It is the time to ask ourselves what we want to do, where do we want to be and what our goals is. We just need to focus and go for it. We are the best, No one wants us to succeed as much as we want to.
So it is important to understand the importance of saying ‘No’ and always be in a positive spirit to succeed in life